Ok, after I posted my reply to this question as a new thread, I have this thing figured out. Sorry, but it takes me sometime, damn puter!!! Ok so here is my reply to your question. Sorry!!!!
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I was lavilered by a Sig Ep my junior year in college. It was great. His brothers really didnt like it at first but soon warmed up to the idea and treated me life part of the group. My boyfriend really made it special and completely surprised me. He was more excited I think then I was, and I was damn excited. It was nice to wear his letters and have such a special promise between us. And it was part of tradition, it felt like another piece to the greek life puzzle