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i would definitely find some way to do the mixer though. if you cancel, sorry to bring in reality, the guys get upset and that could start the 'why even bother, they'll cancel again.'
throw together a random date night with them. it doesn't have to be an organized mixer. one day, go to their house or have them meet you somewhere and kidnap them. . .take them to dinner. our sorority wasn't paying attention to one fraternity. . .so a 'operation: tuna takeover' was invented. basically, we met at school because we were in 'serious trouble' and guys came with blindfolds, carried us outside, and had a picnic lunch with us. a cute gesture that showed some caring and we paid attention.
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