if the witness protection program rumor is valid I would give up. He's hiding for a reason.

but the chances of that are slim. It seems to me like you have done everything in your power to do, and that is very commendable. It seems highly unlikely that he wouldn't keep in contact with all of his brothers or friends from College: keep asking around the other founding members, maybe they do know, but you missed the one who knew.


If not my assumption would be he will come back to the house when he feels he needs that connection to his past. Usually alumni are most active between when they graduate and their late 20's then they dissapear.... they don't get involved again 'till after their 50's. Maybe he's one of those who'll show up in his 50's.

don't know what else to tell you.