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Originally posted by Shireen:
I considered myself having 3 male platonic relationships. By the way, all are Alpha Men. We talked about everything and I do mean everything. Communication lines were open. Then, two of the three established some serious relationships. One just recently got married. When it came time for him to propose, he never told me. I found out months down the line. He moved in with her and did not give me the number until I contacted him at work. He felt awkward discussing wedding plans, etc. I could not understand that. I thought we were JUST FRIENDS and here he was treating me like I was some "fly by night" lover that he was running from. No, we never were intimate and we have been friends for over 15 years. So, were we just FRIENDS? Can men and women seriously be JUST FRIENDS or is someone else always thinking "I wonder if...?"
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How can a person ignore someone that has been in their corner throught thick and thin? A person that has proven themself trustworthy, unselfish, and caring? When you have someone like that(of the opposite sex), it can be hard NOT to look closer at them-or not to fall in love with them. If that happens, you know it will change things; so, you don't tell that person, and try to hide it-like a fool(as if you could)! That's probably what happened to you. Maybe he felt deeper feelings for you, met and got with the other lady, heard from you and felt awkward.