Hello all! I'm the new membership director of the Delta Lambda chapter :-) We are really needing to improve our pref night...I feel that we are not getting across the fact that Phi Mu is where we found our place and how much it really means to us. We currently sing some good songs...Sisters, El Shaddai (with different words), My Precious Sisters, and Body Electric (which I am taking out b/c it is acapello and just doesn't work). We have a big/lil pair read a letter to eachother, and we have the pm's light candles and stand in a circle while we do the choral creed. There is a lot of talking by the president about some symbolism about phi mu (obviously not ritual stuff), and some speeches by sisters. It just doesn't seem personal enough! What can we do to make it more personal for the pm's, to make them realize that this is where they need to be!
Thanks
Shelly