[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by jazbri:
I think the differences that lie between our generation and our grandmothers are many. The main difference is obviously in how we were reared. My grandmothers were reared to be ladies, cheerfully create a loving home environment (inclusive of: cooking, cleaning, taking care of their husbands and children=family). They were groomed to be the 'traditional wife'. My mom raised me to be a lady, independent, complete your college education, and strive to be the best that I can. When you examine the two scenarios (my grandmothers and mine), they are completely different! I've made it clear in my previous posts the areas that I feel we've gone completely astray. I completely lump myself in the category of having gone astray of what I feel is the ultimate achievement. It would be to actually achieve the best of both the old and new generations, balancing a career with a positive, stable, nurturing home environment. (MUCH EASIER SAID THAN DONE) Being a single (soon-to-be divorced) mom of two, I can definitely see where I've gone wrong in my marriage, career, and the raising of my kids. My goal now is to achieve a healthy balance in all areas.

Original Ape, thanks for the compliment. I's blushin'! You're actually not too far from my hometown, Cleveland!

[This message has been edited by jazbri (edited October 12, 2000).]

[This message has been edited by jazbri (edited October 12, 2000).]

Did yall hear DAT! Not too far, huh?


(I need to learn how to put that winker, and sunglasses-wearin' face up where I want it)