[Alison-Marie]

I would never drink in my letters, not just because of the PR image (although, my chapter is conscious of that) but because I have a great respect for my letters, and I wouldn't feel right drinking with them on.

I don't see a problem with having rules against drinking in letters. We even have rules against other people drinking in our letters, although guys occasionally break them (when the shirt has both a fraternity's and our sorority's letters on it). It's one of my pet peeves, actually - watching guys drink in our homecoming shirt. I usually say something.

As for guys making girls do "inappropriate" things - the vast majority of the time, you can't blame a guy for that. Sure, a truly nice guy wouldn't ply some girl with drinks and then try to get her to strip on a pool table or make out with some other girl or any of those crazy stories you hear, but... girls need to take responsibility for their actions, even if they're drunk.

Furthermore, I've actually never seen any of my sisters do these sorts of things, but, if I did, I would step in. Just like many of my sisters would for me. In fact, I and any one of my sisters would get taken home for a lot less scandalous behavior than what you described.

-Alison