The first time I went to my exfiancee's house was last year over new years. First of all the place he lived was BAD A$$! Like three swimming pools, gated entry, townhome-like instead of apartments.
Then we entered his place and the kitchen was messy. Like he didn't own a mop and so the floor hadn't been cleaned (BLAH). The overall set up and furnature was a little more reassuring. He had black leather couch. Matching coffee and end tables. Nice lamps. Huge entertainment center. Everything black and white. Then we went upstairs to the bedroom/bathroom. The toilet was also nasty (no toilet brush either). But he had a nice shower curtain that matched the color of the walls in the room. The bedroom was pretty nice too. He just was messy is all. Very good, expensive taste though!
So I guess he was into putting on a front like he had a lot but really he didn't.
Oh well!