Rec's can come from alumni DG's or active's. Also, on the sponsor form it has a question that asks how long the sponsor has known the PNM, there is a place that says that they don't know the PMN, but obtained the information elsewhere. You could contact the closest chapter of DG and talk to one of their members and see if they could sponsor you, or you could ask one of us on here
But remember, since you are recolonizing you don't have to have a sponsor form. I think out of my pledge class of 80 or so, only 9 of us had sponsors and 5 of those nine were legacies. So it's not something to lose sleep over...I'm sure they'll love you anyway!
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There are friends who pass like ships in the night, who meet for a moment, then sail out of sight, with never a backward glance of regret...Friends we meet briefly then quickly forget.
Then there are friends who sail together, through quiet waters and stormy weather. Helping each other through joy and through strife. And those are the kind who give meaning to life.
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