Well, this topic has been "marinading" so well... *Greekchatters shout in response "HOW WELL IS IT???!!*. It is so well that I had to put in my ________. *Match Game think music plays*
Rain Man LOLs
Alright, now to my sayso.
Recently I met a young lady through a fellow brother at my church. She was a saved Christian woman who currently lives in Kansas but will be moving back to my hometown in Feb. 2001. We have emailed and talked each other to death. We feel that each other is "the one" We have planned to date heavily when she moved back home and even have talked about getting married upon receiving my Master's degree (c. 2002).
Well, just yesterday, I received a very nasty email from her saying in so many words that it was over. Why? Well, she got upset at me (jokingly) tell her godfather that she calls me all the time. Her godfather told her and that was how she found out. Her email made no sense at all and I am still trying to figure it out. While I will not reveal the identity of the person in any way, if anyone is interested, I will email them a copy of what she sent me and try to figure out what she is talking about (and why she flipped out).
Nonetheless, the kicker was that I am not angry, sad, disappointed, or frustrated. Why? Because I have throughout the ordeal felt an unusual calm (God's perfect peace). I don't know if I will ever get married, but the Lord has confirmed to me (I feel) that I am ready spiritually, financially, and mentally.
Yall holla at a [non-Alpha] brother, now, yhear?
Rain Man
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