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Originally posted by AuLait:
Shireen, I really feel you on that post. I don't feel there is a problem with men and women dating but I do have a problem with people who lie or lead their mate to believe that the relationship is exclusive. I just want honesty, nowadays that even seems hard for people to do. I think a lot of time, heartache and pain would be saved if people were just plain honest. One thing I do have to say Shireen is that just because people cheat doesnt mean they don't respect the institution of marriage, now if they cheated while married or engaged then i would say you are completely right. I think more so some people don't respect the relationship and the person they chose to have one with.
I'm a one man woman, I just wish more of the men I meet felt the same way.
Peace and Blessings to All
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Many sistas really DON'T want the truth-for a variety of reasons. Some just want to know cause they outright nosy; some want to know so they can actually make up their minds on what they're gonna do. The assumption here is that the man IS guilty; and THAT'S what doomed this conversation from the start. Suppose most of the evidence adds up to yo man clownin', but you find out that ALL of your suspicions were wrong. How would you feel? How would you try and repair the relationship?