Valkyrie - Thanks for sharing your story, too! I love hearing stories like this. I read something about an alumnae initiation thread, but I checked that forum and couldn't find it.
Like Valkyrie, I'm a little shy, and I'm nervous about walking into this party all by myself. Maybe I'll ask the woman I had coffee with to meet me so I won't walk in alone.
cutiepatootie - I feel like I've jinxed myself already by expressing my interest in Alpha Phi so publicly! Maybe I should just be quiet from this point on.. hee hee.
I'm definitely leaning toward Alpha Phi - if they'll have me.
Thanks for being so helpful!