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The thing with hazing is that 100% of the chapter has to decide whether they are going to haze or not. If you are going to haze then fine, its fun, but dont go crazy and dont get caught (nationals and campus' dont mess around). If you aren't going to haze then you should have some kind of dues that pledges have to pay, i.e. a high mandatory GPA, or no public drinking, or pledges have to do all community service work, etc.... You get the drift. Its just like raising a child, you and spouse have to decide whether to spank the kid or not, but punishment has to be given. You cant just let a pledge in to your fraternity and have the same rights and privileges as the actives in the fraternity. Well thats my 2 cents.
p.s. tough love always works
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