http://mcrae.ca/greek/docs/lambda10.htm
I found this website one day while searching for Lambda Chi Alpha stuff. Any brother who can read it and not accept every man as a man didn't go through the same ritual I did. Brotherhood has nothing to do with one's sexual orientation, religion, or anything else and if he cannot accept that then all brothers of Lambda Chi Alpha do not have an obligation to accept him as a "TRUE" brother. Every brother of Lambda Chi Alpha has their own baggage that we bring to the alter of Lambda Chi Alpha and ask our brothers to help us bear. If he cannot, or will not be there to support you, then he can GTFO! Brotherhood involves letting men into the secret depths of your heart, for that is where true brotherhood resides.
You are wonderful brother and my life has been enriched by meeting and talking with you.
Truly IN ZAX
Matthew Troy
As was once told to me "You cannot love this fraternity any more than you love the least of your brothers."