I do not agree with Imthechamp...I think that you've been together for 3yrs for a reason....and you are definately going about thihngs the right way by trying and asking for advice...I am not sure what to tell you though...b/c I am not there yet, but I fear that I might be getting close...well anyway, I don't know about other ppl but in my relationship I'll do anything for my BF as he would for me usually..we usually have a disagreement with certain issues, like going out with the guys...i don't mind it, I think its good but when you are willing to break plans w/me for them but then sometimes you aren't willing to do the same for me, bothers me

Does that happen to you? Ok I am sorry I just went on and on...I'll stop now.
ronnie