[RACooper]

Right..... hmmm.....

I would have to say that it is this older Bro that has the issues. If he is OK? with it then why doesn't he let it go? One, Personally I would lose all respect for someone as pathetic a brother as he sounds. Two, I recommend that if possibly you have some other brothers approach him (obstenively without your knowledge), and explain to him exactly what your concerns are and why his attitude is wrong.

You should suffer in know way for his pettiness and general jack-ass attitude.