Well at this point, I'm just COMPLETELY FED UP with MY crazy family member. It's my youngest sister. To be quite honest, I REALLY and TRULY believe that she is BIPOLAR, on drugs, or just plain ole' CRAZY...for real.
I'm 8 years older than she is and we just have NEVER clicked. This GIRL is pure GHETTO. It's like we don't have the same blood running through us. This girl does things like pick arguements with CHILDREN. My oldest sister, brother, and I don't even trust this chick with OUR children. The night before last, she actually HIT my oldest sister. Now that might not sound like such a big deal, but this chick is like FOUR MONTHS PREGNANT, has one child (3 years old), and married (with SERIOUS domestic violence issues...mainly on HER part). She's gone as far as to actually hit her husband with her CAR. She's also SLAPPED him because she said that he didn't ACT like he wanted to get her some ice water. WHAT???!!!!! Yes, ya'll she just does not care. It's ALWAYS some drama with her. ALWAYS!! On top of that, she's a KNOWN BULLY in our neighborhood back home. She curses like a sailor, lies like a rug (you had better BELIEVE that you can't trust ANYTHING that she tell you because she's been caught in SO many lies), and loves to say "I'M GROWN". And the sad part is that we don't know WHERE she gets it from because my mother and father weren't and aren't like that and we weren't raised like that. She hasn't spoken to my brother for close to a YEAR now because he lives with and has a baby from a girl that SHE doesn't like (and she can't tell anyone WHY she doesn't like the girl). What's THAT all about?
My youngest sister is too STUPID, IMMATURE, and CHILDISH for me ya'll. She's the type of person who can dish it out, but she can't take it. She's always ready to fight when you say something to her that she doesn't like (which is why she hit my oldest sister). I just feel so sorry for those children. She once asked me why I never call her. And I told her that she's not ready to hear what I have to say. She's not mature or strong enough to take it. And THAT'S the truth. So, 9 times out of 10 we don't have anything to talk about...not even during the holidays.
I just don't deal with her AT ALL. She gets into it all of the time with my oldest sister and my brother, but she KNOWS not to mess with ME because I'd fight her like someone on the street. God knew EXACTLY what He was doing when He moved me, my husband, and my children to Richmond.
Gosh, I COULD tell ya'll some stories, but there's not EVEN enough space on this ENTIRE FORUM to do so.
Don't worry, fellow GCers, no ONE person is alone when it comes to THIS topic. NO ONE!!!