i fully agree with all of you that certain things about our sisterhood shouldn't be talked about on here or anywhere else unless it is in person with your other sisters who are initiated. i do believe in my opinion that part of the wonderful sisterhood is to share the bonds and its special because you and your sisters only know what makes adpi and how works. i do think it is alright to talk about what kind of activities you do throughout the year such as mistletoe madness. and to tell everyone that you do have rush going on and how many members you got on bid day because thats just something that you would want to share everyone, however to talk about how you went through the rush process and what you did each night, etc. should not be talked with other individuals. as for initiation and ritual as i learned within my sorority and i truely believe it should not be talked about. those things are special and should be special to adpi's only considering thats a major part of our sorority and to us. i do want to say violets that you aren't in the dark age because everything that you did say was what i was taught and think shouldn't be talked about on the outside. i'm not sure if any of this has been done before considering i'm still fairly new on here and don't have time to get on very often. we should really stop to think about what our open motto says. ...."We Live for Each Other" means what it says...not that we live for women that aren't our sisters which I believe also means that individuals who aren't our adpi sisters shouldn't be let in on what is special and sacred to us. sorry i'm not sure if that line really made a whole lot of sense..i know what i was trying to say but its not exactly coming out right this morning.
p.s. i have something totally off subject to ask of all of my sisters....will you pray for my mom because she had surgery yesterday and right now she is in the ICU unit until they see how things are going and whether it was successful...i would really appreciate it.
pi love,
Kayla
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