As a perspective or interest (whatever works for some), I must let some of those who share the feelings as 7BA94 know that you are the reason that Greeks get so much negative attention. Its a good thing for those Alphas that have pledged "differently" than 7BA94, that his words are not gospel so what he thinks does not matter. I have read a thousand and one posts from greeks about other greeks intake etc etc. In reality it really does not matter how you FEEL about how that person came in. They are still IN and you can not strip them of their letters just because you THINK that they did not pledge hard as you did. If you want to act ignorantly torward them simply because of their intake process then one needs to question YOUR brotherhood and YOUR loyalty to your fraternity or sorority! You have no control over how someone came to be a part of your org. as long as they are not perping, then as their BROTHER or SISTER you should love them the same. Whether I get a chance to cross over into my sorority of choice, this is one arguement I will never understand! As I have done and still do my research on BGLOS, I have yet to run across anything that says that you are only a true member if you pledge "HARD" (whatever that means to some). Some one can be online for six months and get "pledged hard" the whole way and still cross and not do nothing but wear nalia and step! Or graduate and never affiliate with his or her org again. Those things should be what your focus is on! You should spend more time trying to eradicate the problem of those that cross and do not do anything afterward or become inactive! Thats where you need to place your questions of brotherhood! Instead of getting down on some poor soul who had no control how they were made or who chose not to deal with the unnecessary BS! We must get our focus right people if we are to make it in this world! If we are not backing and supporting each other then no one else will. Much love to all my peeps! P.S. Why is it that men seem to be more bothered by members that were not "pledged hard" than women? Is it an ego thing?
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