I have to somewhat agree with what Glitter said about hazing.
Your pledgeship/new member period should be fun or at least an enjoyable time and that should be why you bonded - because you had fun together; NOT because you were all scared and terrifed together over the things you were being asked to do; NOT because you were all upset over what the active members said to you and your new member class...
that's just my opinion anyway.
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