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Originally posted by The Original Ape:
Remember. Us brothas are raised to keep our emotions to ourselves...expressing pain or pleasure is the act of the weak.
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You really just made me think about myself
I agree with this statement so much and I must even say that I am guilty of teaching my son to hold in his pain
("Boys don't cry", "Are you a baby or a Big boy", "shake it of and don't cry")
so since this is the way we raise our men(children), ladies,
Why do we get hurt when they grow up and some how think that if they really tell you how they truly feel they will spontaneously combust or something?
Actually I guess this should have went on the ladies forum, sorry, Ape you just made me realize something and I wanted to let you know.