Since my 21st is tomorrow (yeah ME

) I realize the dilemma that you are going through. Since you're 21st is supposed to be some big hoopla, a couple of my friends are taking me out at midnight tonight to a club that is 21 and over. Tomorrow, I will be going out to celebrate dinner-style with my boyfriend and my family. Above all, I agree with treblk, It's YOUR party, do what YOU want! Anyway, good luck, and happy birthday!