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Originally posted by thatgirl:
Original Ape:
I know it's not that easy, and I figured it wasn't your situation. What I'm saying is that a lot of times a person may not realize that anything is wrong until you bring it to their attention. As far as women putting on airs--- it happens. It happens everyday. It doesn't make them less than a woman, it is simply one of their flaws. Everyone has flaws. As for me, I've learned to keep it on the up and up from the beginning to save myself a lot of heartache. The bottom line is that a good MATE, male or female, would always respect, honor, and trust their partner. Everyone is deserving of those things.
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I agree. Everyone intially deserves respect; but they'll have to maintain it themselves; otherwise, they'll lose it somewhere, and many times, unecessarily.
When I tried to tell my friend's girl to tighten up, she told me "it's all good". I told her:yeah, it's all good... and gone! I told her that my boy loves her; and wasn't thinking about another woman. That he just wants the woman back that he fell in love with. I told her to quit being so suspicious about him and work on her attitude and weight problem. I think they're related. Instead of appreciating what I was trying to do, she laughed it off as if I was playin' with her. I told her that I was serious. I got the impression it didn't matter to her. My boy was crushed by her lack of sincerity.