I initated last month into Alpha Phi and i am an alum initate and i hated looking for white dresses.
I am married and already have a child so whoever thinks you cannot intiate being married or have a child is silly!
I went out on a all out search to 6 different Ross's to find a white dress and i found only ONE on clearance at the last store i came across and i found white satin dyable shoes as well. My own mother was about to sew a dress for me ... it got down to the wire.
White is a horrible color to go searching for in the fall winter time.
Laura