[KappaTarzan]

as weird as this sounds you need someone just a little intimidating as your pledge educator.. a girl wh you know would never ever haze you ( we are also haze free) but you don't want to find out what would happen if she got mad... a sister that is a little older is usually better at this, they tend to work more and be around less, which makes the times hen the "older girl" is around more serious.
i can honestly say that i was not hazed once and did it all because my pledge educator was someone i didn't want to ever get mad, in real life or sorority stuff... we also received ALOT of praise which helped a ton