I hating finding a white dress. I was iniatiated last fall, and had a white dress that I hated. I needed to wear white for the spring, so I just bought a new one. If you have to buy a white dress even if you hate it then wait till the spring to buy a new one... I hated it, we have to wear a white dress, white slip, white hose, and white shoes.. I had the hardest time finding white hose. For shoes, I just bought the white dyable shoes meant for weddings. Our shoes have to be closed toe too, which makes it even harder. I am so glad I have a dress, so i don't have to worry about it now.