Gosh Almighty! Sounds, unfortunately, like the trials and tribulations of being an officer.... a lot of hard work, and often times, very little recognition of it. I don't think anyone is meaning to negate the hard work and effort you've put in, it just sounds as if the CMT has a very specific idea of what they want from the web page. But it also sounds as if they want someone to put A LOT of time and effort into it, which they may not realize is as time-consuming as it is. If possible, can there be compromise? Can you explain the benefits of what you have now, what you think is necessary to keep, and then make certain changes that they insist on? If you could meet in the middle, it may save a lot of frustration and potential butting of heads. And, if no one else is willing to work on the page or has the know-how in order to do so, it sounds as if the chapter has little options of changing it to their exact liking.
By the way, I think you've done a WONDERFUL job on the website, and frankly I enjoy seeing chapter sites with up-to-date information and and multiple links. It makes for a much more enjoyable webpage for outsiders to see what's going on in particular chapters. Lord knows I wish my alma mater would keep their site as current as yours! My two cents
