I don't think that EVERY black man wants a white woman...but an overwhelming majority would probably let a white woman &&*&&^&*^&** (no disrespect to white women unless you let black men use you to &&*&&^&*^&**)
I also don't think GLO members have any special issues with trust. Most of us didn't get into this for friends and we can seperate organizational affiliations from friendships.
Despite what the media tells us, I don't think that ALL light skinned women think they're prettier than dark skinned women. As a light skinned woman (I hate speaking from personal experience b/c I know I'm not the norm) I spend a lot of my time explaining (particularly to black men) how lighter skin doesn't equal prettier. We already have a seperation between the races...let's not perpetuate seperation within the race.
BUT, my OWN radical views...of which I take complete bigoted credit for:
--As much as I love my brother/sister regardless of race I believe there are certain boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. I am weary of blacks who ONLY date outside the race (particularly with whites) and form friendships outside the race (particularly with whites). There is something inherently troubling about this.
--As said best by a young white lady at a race forum this year, whites are inherently racist. If you're white and you say you're not, then you are---even if you marched with Martin Luther King, Jr. Ask Tim Wise (the "white man who speaks black truths") about this one. This doesn't mean that you're not NICE or that you don't TRY...but acknowledge your inherent racism so you can be more conscious of the blatant and more subtle things you say and do.
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