[James]

Wow . . . thats uhm pretty definite. Is that the approach all the ladies take towards the poor boy?

Originally posted by librasoul22
1. Boys gets digits and leaves message....depending on my schedule I may call back. If I like him a lot, he goes higher on the list of priorities. If I liked him enough to gve him the #, he must have SOME potential (or I was drunk...NOT unheard of...), so he will get a return call within 72 hours. If he calls back within those 72 hours...once is okay. Anything more than once constitutes over-zealous and he is discarded. lol. Yes, I am serious.

2. Whoever asked for the # calls first. No exceptions.

3. If I am busy Friday (which I probably will be), I will give him a better day. If it is not good for him, he can give me another day. After that, my attention span falls off and I tell him to call me back later. I am HORRIBLE at making plans. It is much better to call me at 7:30 and ask if I want to go out at 10 then to call me on Monday and ask if I want to go out on Friday. There is no pretense about this however, because I make it known up front.

4. Oh wait...that was all. But I will offer this. I don't play games. When I meet you, I will always be charming, flirtatious, and magnetic. But you SHOULD be able to tell whether it is just surface or something more. If not, you will find out when you ask for the #.