I know... I was getting really frustrated when she kept saying "it's not a sorority"... I wanted to say "YES IT IS!!!" but I was trying to be really nice I don't know what she thinks it is if it isn't a sorority!

I guess.... I sort of feel like I'm reliving the past here. When I pledged Delta Omicron in college, we were a large, socially active sorority. A few years later, we'd pledged (apparently) the wrong group of girls, who decided that we should no longer be social (ie. have mixers with other fraternities and sororities) and no longer call ourselves a sorority but instead a "professional music organization" because they didn't want to be thought of as Greek. Many of us didn't like these changes, but we were outnumbered, and now DO on my campus has all but died out.

I guess I feel like I'm encountering the same situation all over again, with the Milwaukee area not wanting to be called a 'sorority', rarely having social events (I asked what kind of stuff they do socially and she said they have a tea once a year and that's about it), etc.

Part of me says, start a chapter and make it be about what I want it to be about (ie. actually enjoying ourselves?), but the other part of me feels that I'll be fighting a losing battle against the city council.

*sigh* very disheartened.