You know, its funny.... We (as in my chapter) generally have respect for alums. However, we had 27 girls graduate last year!
So, whenever I see them (ie...homecoming parade, during recruitment...) I forget that they are alum! I was so used to seeing them on a "regular" basis that I sometimes forget that they are no longer active as a colligiate. Weird...someday I'll be one....
Carrie, I'm really sorry. I think that you are amazing! If your chapter does not shape up soon, think of this...one day the shoe will be on the other foot...they will becomes alums and when they don't get the respect they deserve and earned, I'm sure they will gravel at your feet! Take comfort in that, at least!!!!
Blaire