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DeltaBetaBaby-On a similar note, you should actually BE hard to get. If you fill your life with what makes you happy, friends, activities, etc., you will only give those things up if a guy proves that he is worth your time. You shouldn't be lying to him or not returning calls, but if you happen to be busy, more power to you. It sure beats sitting around waiting for him.
To me, this is the BEST advice. The only exception is you wouldn't give those things up (which I don't think DeltaBetaBaby really intended to imply). You would end up setting time aside and/or rearranging your schedule to INCLUDE the addition of this person in your life.
I do think one reason this "game" is played stems from what we learned in HS. EVERY guy wants the same girl and likewise every girl wants the same guy. Hence-they were hard to get and when/if you DID get them-YOU became a "hot" property.
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