I agree with Gaspard. Most of you all have NO idea what REAL Brotherhood is or can be. You cannot take complete strangers and make he best lifelong friendships in 8-10 weeks without calculated induced stress. Look at the people that have gone to war together, they have some of the strongest bonds there are in life. Someone earlier, in another thread suggested that the Brotherhood in their chapter was like a marriage. I agree, its what I am accustomed too. Brotherhood in my chapter is just like that. It's a life long bond that takes precedent too everything else you do in life. My wife married me, but she also married my Fraternity. My Fraternity Brothers are now her brother-in-laws. It was a condition of our relationship. If your brotherhood is not this deep, then you have NO idea what we are talking about. You cannot explain the ocean to someone who has never seen it.
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