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don't stress about not getting a little this semester! i bet you were on some lists!! i know when i was a phi, i couldn't decide which person that i really wanted more. so i put my three choices and i wrote a little note that said i would be really happy with any one of my choices. there was a sister who INSISTED that i really wanted her as my big. she made the phi mom cry. amy came downstairs in tears and asked if we really would be happy with our choices and if we wanted to change our minds, we could. she didn't tell us what the situation was at the time, but she and i talked about it later. it was pretty awful! i did end up getting the best big ever!
the same thing happened the next year with the same sister. she INSISTED that one of the new sisters wanted her to be her big. i was actually this girl's first choice. unfortunately, the phi mom went with it. my little was ok, but we really didn't get to be good friends. i ended up adopting the girl who wanted me and someone else. some people really click....and some people don't. it is ok tho! have fun and enjoy your college years!!!
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