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Yeah, I agree! Friends are friends and if he gave that speech and he does have a girlfriend then what more is there to do? It's obvious there is something between them if he chose to be with her. The best way you can come out on top in this situation is to act like it doesn't bother you at all and that his happiness is great (hopefully that's true regardless).
I know that here in two weeks I'll be confessing my adoration for my guy friend that I dated four years ago but the timing was off. We flirt like mad but I'm not sure how the boundaries are...like if it's okay to start up a relationship.
Friends often do things and we recognize them as "more" because we have crushes on them...when in fact they may not be "more". Hope you follow me!
Best thing to do is go with idea of having a good time and supporting a friend. If you can't handle it when you get there then leave...but don't be telling your mutual friends why. That'll only make it worse!
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