The community of GLO's and the White House are two COMPLETELY different things. We as individuals do represent our houses but I think for the purposes of this discussion and most others that we do not represent an official position taken by our respective organizations.
How specifically do we differ from your analogy of the White House?
Well one is a centralized command structure. It has a head and if all the parts don't work together it will be replaced. While you could make an argument for us being replaced if we don't work together I'd have to say that would have to entail a pretty extreme situation and CERTAINLY not one that arises on an internet based message board
The Greek Life Community on the other hand is composed of many heads. Since we are a community and the actions of one group will ultimately effect the other groups I think it is important that groups openly criticize the actions of others when we see something that disturbs us. They may or may not choose to act on it -- that's their perogative. At the end of the day KKG still has my respect regardless of their final decision in this matter.
Now, that being said I'm going to have to agree with Tom here. If KKG thinks its ladies are worthy of wearing their letters and knowing their ritual, etc... they should trust them to represent their organization appropriately on these or ANY message boards.