That must be hard to have a husband who is not fully supportive of your greek experience. I think that the service stuff sounds awful. I think people are more likely to defend something that they are a part of bc they don't want to feel like anything is wrong with it so they find fault in others. I once heard that the things you dislike are often the things you do- ie. eat with your mouth full. I am not saying you hazed so i hope you understand what I am trying to say.
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