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ok, i am disgusted. let's say the kappas continue to post here inc their affiliation....what will happen to them? will mommy come to college and send them to their rooms w/o dinner? what about those of us who are alums? am i going to get grounded for 2 weeks? will people from kappa's hq log in and post things like, and the opinion of suzzykappa does not express those expressed by the national org....and if suzzykappa posts again, we are going to take away the car for one week?
just playing the devil's advocate here.....we all "know" that having an abortion is not "ladylike." so lets pretend that suzy sorority girl gets pregnant and decides to have an abortion (because of course, NO college students ever have sex bc that isn't "appropriate"). even tho she doesn't wear her letters to the clinic...and doesn't put her glo on the form, people on campus know this is happening....and they know her affiliation. will she be brought to the standards committee.....or get kicked out of the sorority by hq bc this is not ok with the national org????
i guess the biggest thing that irks me....and this is why some of my friends never went greek.....is that people feel that someone who happens to belong to a certain group is a certain way based on which group they are affiliated with. i am many things, a greek, a democrat, a feminist, an agnostic, an italian, a member of a teacher's union (and a million other things). each one of my actions do not reflect each group i belong to. i was raised catholic, but i don't believe in the religion....my catholic school teachers aren't chasing me down telling me that i have not presented myself as a good catholic and now i am in trouble!
i said this in another forum about this, but where do they draw the line?? yes, i don't think that people should post ritual or trash talk their org, but who cares if timmytke and pattyphimu post how old they were when they lost their virginity? if pattyphimu was 15 when she started having sex, it doesn't mean that EVERY phi mu has been having sex since she was 15.
and what if the org decided that it was not ok for memebers to date people of a certain race.....
this is a slippery slope.....and i have to say, that i feel this will only bring a bad light to glos.....what will the rush slogans be? come join us and lose your right to think for yourself....or i got my wish tonight, someone to make decisions for me!
please...this is ridiculous
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