In my chapter Bigs give pillows to lils, lils give paddles to their bigs. I'm pretty sure all the other chapters on campus do the same. The exchange is done after initiation. Everyone gets soo creative it's great !! We give other gifts as well though... I plan on giving my sapphire sis lots of stuff at her initiation this weekend Actually one of my sisters and I are having a "crafty competition A LA Martha Stewart/ Rosie O'donnell to see who has the more creative gifts and such for our lil's hehehe it's all in good fun though.
