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This is a good topic....In my experience, I can never seem to get rid of "ex's". I always end up being better friends than lovers with my ex-boyfriends. There have only been two, but one was for 5 years (all throughout college and one year after) and then my most previous ex was for a little over 4 years. What I learned from my first ex was that I was young and dumb. He taught me sooo much about men, and I tell him this all the time. For him, I'm the "one who got away". My last ex and I were good friends before we decided to date. I think that's why the relationship lasted so long. He was my best guy friend and I loved him because of our bond. Now I realize that he was much better as a friend than boyfriend.
Closure is always a good thing...it definetly helps you get over the hurt, look at the situation as a blessing, and move on.
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