I am really sorry to hear that you feel this way. I know that I lived in the house for two years.. and there were plenty of times when I felt like things were not so great. Though I realized that well, there are 36 of us in one house and there are bond to be conflicts. We are like a family.. not all families are perfect but you take the wonderful things with the bad things that go on. I know that this year I have been even happier since I am not living in the house.. but I would never trade that experience for anything.
I know one thing that our chapter did was hold a retreat at the house where everyone was able to discuss concerns. Since we do not do this at meetings.. though these were general concerns. They asked questions and if you felt one way you went to one side or the other of the room and if you were torn.. you could sit in the middle. The we talked one a time on each side about the issue. I think that this really helped clear the air on things and def had positive effects on our chapter moral and effectiveness. Every chapter goes through its ups and downs and every member does too. Your exec and board so be made aware about how you feel so that something could be done.
I hope that things are able to turn around for you... there is so much to pi phi and we shouldnt let the petty things come between us.
