I don't think that those Fraternities/Sororities who pledge the hardest are nessesarly the best to join. However if you do not have the opportunity to experience a complete pledging process you miss some of the most important parts of greek life. I am an engineering student and grades are definately my #1 priority. There is no reason you can't mix a well organized pledge program and maintain a respectable GPA. I wasn't beaten or humilliated (We learned many lessons in humility which is quite different, though often confused), however the process does increase one's 'mental stamina' which is one of the reasons that the members of greek organizations have consistantly been so successful. As long as everyone realizes the true goals that need to be achived during pledging, the outcome will be positive. Pledging should be challenging. Life is about overcoming challenges; just learning your houses's history and having good intentions are not enough. Many organizations have members with those qualities. Pledging is what sets us apart and makes us better. If staying up too late and being put into uncomfortable situations is considered hazing, then I garauntee that everyone will be 'hazed' for the rest of there life at your workplace and in society.
Who hasn't stayed up late to study or work? Who hasn't been put into an uncomfortable position by their Prof, Boss, friend, or coworker? Its an unfortunate reality that we all need to accept and prepare for.
I don't think less of those who may be considered 'paper'. I wish that everyone would realize that often times there is a difference between those who pledged and those who didn't. Take advantage of what the system has to offer, don't be quick degrade a system that has historically functioned very well.
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