i really hope you don't just quit!!! you've put too much effort to just give it all up.
this might sound a lot worse than i intend it to be, but maybe you should find ladies who will put forth the effort to bring this new sorority to life!
i think i have told you before when i was going to another university, a group of friends, including myself, got together to form a local sorority to go national.
in this group, girls came, and the ones that didn't want to put forth the effort left. well the girls who stuck with it have almost completed their journey!! they formed a local interest group that had NINE members... went through formal recruitment and COB and now they are a healthy 27. (just FYI.. 27 is GOOD for groups on this school... it's really small school to begin with and not many are Greek). They have colonized with an international sorority and are working towards getting their official charter.
it *can* be done.. but the *all* the people involved need to *want* it.
feel free to pm me if you want to talk! i really hope it works out for you!!!