OMG! I would have BLOWN UP at that girl. Who in the hell does she think she is? It is sad to see that in the year 2002, we still have people like that who are in CHARGE of a whole chapter of women. Now, as for the other girl, let her in and get to know her. Obviously, she doesn't agree with the rest of the chapter. Being in a bi-racial relationship myself (I am Latina, my boyfriend is black), I get very offended if anyone of my sisters were to say that about me. But to them we are just another couple. You could maybe talk to this girl about what the president said and get the low down. And honestly, TELL YOUR NATIONAL! I am so sure they would love to know that a president of one of their oldest chapters is one racist prejudice jerk (I could say a whole lot more
) Because action needs to be taken. If they have a problem with a sister just KISSING someone of another race, what would they think about girls from other races rushing? (I can take a wild guess that their chapter is NOT diverse). While my chapter lacked diversity as well, they were always looking for other girls (its just hard to get them since they join traditional black, latina, or asian sororities). And when they met me, they welcomed me with open arms. My origin was not an issue. And thats how you guys have to be. Because it sounds to me like you guys are obviously much better and above that other chapter.