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Originally posted by Optimist Prime
So, just so I'm clear on the matter, the consenous here is to just sweep it under the rug, and act like it didn't happen or doesn't matter?
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i don't think anyone is saying to pretend like that girl didn't make the comment. instead of giving that info to the chapter to aid in the decision of whether to allow her to affiliate, we are suggesting that she keep it to herself....and bring the info to her advisor and her national's attention. the other women in her chapter do not need the info.
blue violet,
"I was trying to be discrete....but basically, having male company is OK, making out with said company in the living room-NOT ok.You could be brought up on standards for that-especially if you are in your letters or whatever."
is this a chapter rule or a national rule? i am in shock that you could be brought to standards for kissing someone in the living room!! and i can't imagine that it should make any difference whether you are in letters or not. i completely agree that if they were having sex in the living room, then that would not be appropriate, but i really don't feel that it is any business of the chapter that she would be going to!!! i am glad that you decided not to bring your chapter's attention, however, i wish you would reconsider telling your national org about the incident.