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I can't speak for everyone, but I think this is a real problem at deferred rush schools. During fall term, we have to keep careful track of not only all the freshmen we meet--but who their friends are: who lives on their hall, who they go to parties with, what clubs they're in, etc, etc, etc. Sometimes one girl will get cut from a group all of her friends want, and she we drop out of rush rather than pledge another house. Or, if she does pledge, it creates weirdness between her and her friends from freshmen year in later years.
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