We had deferred and we pledged a few small "cliques", but if we liked one person, we usually liked their friends, so we didn't have an issue of wanting to take one and not the other. The only thing I saw negative about it is when people pledged in a clique and then kept to themselves and didn't attempt to get close to other sisters. I mean, what is the point? If all you were going to do was hang out with the people you were already friends with, why even bother pledging and shelling out all that $$$? To wear a jacket, I guess.
