Don't talk to him you'll just confuse him.
That nonsense only works in the movies . . in screenplays written by women.
With guys try the direct approach, be flirty, not serious, have drinks a good time and seduce him.
Drinks help lol.
Then don't be stupid and mess it up by having cold feet and letting the talk go into the mistake category . . .
Seduce him and then take him down and pin him like a prize bull
Good luck