[KappaKittyCat]

I apologise if I've offended you. I was merely pointing out that such behaviour is rather typical of males who exhibit those opinions, and that perhaps you might be aware of that so that people do not make such assumptions. I also did not mean anything by using the term "boys." I refer to gentlemen of all ages by that word.

I'm sorry to hear that you've had your heart broken. You sound very bitter. I'd encourage you to give kindness and sincerity another try. The ladies you attract with anything other than those qualities will just hurt you more in the long run. If you treated your XGF well and she broke your heart like that, then she didn't really deserve you anyway.

And I'd still like to see the study that proves that cuddling drains testosterone.