[KappaKittyCat]

HotDamn, the neurotransmitter in question is adrenaline, also known as epinephrine. It's what makes us ladies want to go run laps after sex.

Rudey & Co., I'd like to see the study that shows that cuddling drains testosterone. I suppose you boys are some of the ones who think that being kind is the same thing as being effeminate, which would make you gay. God help us all, we can't have that! Go ahead and get it on, you two, but use a condom. And I, for one, do not want to see pictures.

OP, being kind does work. Eventually you'll find a lady who wises up and realizes what she has with you. All the others will be kicking themselves after a miserable divorce twenty years down the road, saying, "Damn, I should have grabbed that Billy kid when I had the chance."